tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post6972994858558240092..comments2024-03-13T00:06:25.143-07:00Comments on In 2 Me See: Clarification and progress on the decision ...Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post-81710193458669438762008-11-18T16:34:00.000-08:002008-11-18T16:34:00.000-08:00How exciting to be considering a January cycle! G...How exciting to be considering a January cycle! Good luck making your decisions! I'll be praying for you! I so hope those AMH tests come back great again!!!!!!!!Bellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09991924801382270103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post-41306660061226557092008-11-18T16:02:00.000-08:002008-11-18T16:02:00.000-08:00We've always had a problem with discarding abnorma...We've always had a problem with discarding abnormal embryos (or any embryos for that matter), too. I wish that our issue wasn't with the sperm; otherwise, we'd do what you did (testing the egg). But there is no way to test the sperm BEFORE fertilization. My DH's translocation, if the embryo inherits the unbalanced form, it's not something that is survivable like Downs or something like that. But I do understand where you're coming from in not wanting to discard any embryos. It weighs heavily on our hearts and there is not one day that goes by that we don't think about them. Anyway, I wanted to say is that I really enjoy reading your posts. :) No need to apologize!! :)Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06102362663976429651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post-72384303881445050072008-11-18T09:04:00.000-08:002008-11-18T09:04:00.000-08:00I love your explanations. I am just learnign abou...I love your explanations. I am just learnign about all the testing, etc. and it is very helpfulKimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16245583469773767262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post-40454757628532689682008-11-18T07:49:00.000-08:002008-11-18T07:49:00.000-08:00No need to apologize! I always feel so much smart...No need to apologize! I always feel so much smarter after reading your information. This is a tough decision yall have to make and I am glad you are taking your time to prayer-fully consider every option. Big hugs to ya girl. Thank you for always educating me and for allowing me to be a part of your journey.Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14683127027917195775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post-74722853976843242632008-11-18T07:15:00.000-08:002008-11-18T07:15:00.000-08:00Wow. I am so glad you made this post. I am really ...Wow. I am so glad you made this post. I am really struggling with the discarding of abnormal embryos. I have signed up to participate in this knowing that half if not more of my embryos will be discarded and it makes me sad every day. My husband is very much for it and all of my friends but one tell me that I shouldn't overthink this but it hurts and I am sad and the procedure hasn't started. I think I am already stuck in this way as I've committed to my husband... but I will very very very very very seriously consider the egg testing instead next round, if there is one. I need to make peace with God. I can't thank you enough for posting this. I really am so grateful. Good luck on your AMH test. Big numbers! Big numbers!Josée Martenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12774124942554313863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post-66542220999564553372008-11-18T07:11:00.000-08:002008-11-18T07:11:00.000-08:00For back up you could pay for CCRM before the end ...For back up you could pay for CCRM before the end of the year (if you have the $15,000+) and if the FET does not work out (hopefully it does and then you gladly ask for a refund from CCRM!), as long as you start your CCRM cycle early in the year, I think it counts for tax purposes in 2008. It's when you pay for it, not when you do it - though it should be reasonably close. Good luck! I agree with everyone to go with your gut. I'd probably want to see the FET through first.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post-49151078888207644492008-11-18T06:24:00.000-08:002008-11-18T06:24:00.000-08:00I like the explanations too, but I'm a science ner...I like the explanations too, but I'm a science nerd like that. ;)<BR/><BR/>I haven't commented much but I have been reading. Best of luck in the next step of your journey!Plant Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11471946317376166507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post-44771135452983321722008-11-18T06:07:00.000-08:002008-11-18T06:07:00.000-08:00Ah, that does change the landscape somewhat! It i...Ah, that does change the landscape somewhat! It is wonderful that you have 2 healthy eggs, but, this is more than a regular FET and I can see why it requires a different thought process. Even though nothing is written in stone, it must feel so much better having at least a tentative decision! I know that helps me!!<BR/><BR/>I'm glad we found one another and can share in each other's journey!!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11473046279048522079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010332933050943413.post-38018878872880549982008-11-17T22:46:00.000-08:002008-11-17T22:46:00.000-08:00No need to apologize. I always seem to learn some...No need to apologize. I always seem to learn something new each time I come here. (;<BR/><BR/>I'm so happy you 2 are coming to a decision. It has been a long journey to get here and I pray that your next step brings you the baby of your dreams. Love you, dear friend.Lost in Spacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07027117135940864685noreply@blogger.com